[A]fter all, what does it mean for pain to be 'memorable'?....

“ [A]fter all, what does it mean for pain to be 'memorable'? You're either in pain or you're not. And it isn't the pain that one forgets. It's the touching death part. As the baby might say to its mother, we might say to death: I forget you, but you remember me. ”

Maggie Nelson

From : The Argonauts