Quotes by : Lundy Bancroft

Abuse grows from attitudes and values, not feelings. The roots are ownership, the trunk is entitlement,....

The man’s rights and the woman’s rights are the same size. They have the right to have their opinions....

Never believe a man’s claim that he has to harm his partner in order to protect her only abusers think....

When people conclude that anger causes abuse, they are confusing cause and effect. Ray was not abusive....

When we hear these kinds of excuses from a drunk, we assume they are exactly that—excuses. We don’t....

Have you ever suffered a sharp disappointment or a painful loss and found yourself looking for someone....

The central attitudes driving Mr. Right are:You should be in awe of my intelligence and should look up....

To make matters worse, everyone she talks to has a different opinion about the nature of his problem....

The scars from mental cruelty can be as deep and long-lasting as wounds from punches or slaps but are....

Consider how challenging it is to negotiate or compromise with a man who operates on the following tenets....