Quotes by : Terrence Real

Revenge is really a perverse form of communication, a twisted attempt at repair.

Learning to listen relationally, listen with cool heads and clear boundaries, listen with the quietness....

As women shut down their needs, they also shut down their sense of pleasure.

The paradox of real love is that our capacity to sustain intimacy rests on our capacity to tolerate aloneness....

...changing one's own behavior is a much more promising strategy than insisting on change from the other.....

...strength is not the absence of vulnerability. Strength is knowing what your weaknesses are and working....

Women are unhappy in their marriages because they want men to be more related than most men know how....

Despite all of their flaws and difficulties, these men don't want to walk out on their own lives, leave....

We are so busy attempting to manage the result that we fail simply to run the race.