It's the way some med say, "I'm not the problem" or....

“ It's the way some med say, "I'm not the problem" or that they shifted the conversation from actual corpses and victims as well as perpetrators to protecting the comfort level of bystander males. An exasperated woman remarked to me, "What do they want--a cookie for not hitting, raping, or threatening women? ”

Rebecca Solnit

From : Men Explain Things to Me