Report, if you have a problem with this page“ Obsessive love is built on a tissue of illusions: that by having sex with someone you can possess that person's soul; that you can transmute past defeats into present triumphs without understanding or mourning; that you make the unloving love you by constancy, uncomplaining availability, and molding yourself into what you thing that person wants. ”
Jeanne Safer
From : The Golden Condom: And Other Essays on Love Lost and Found
