Report, if you have a problem with this page“ our contemporary ideas about manliness, reflected in action movies and westerns, generally prohibit so-called real men from displaying high emotion, with the exception of anger. John Wayne doesn’t cry. By contrast, Achilles, the epitome of manliness in Homer’s Iliad, weeps openly and at length over the loss of his friend Patroclus. ”
Thomas Van Nortwick
From : Imagining Men: Ideals of Masculinity in Ancient Greek Culture