Report, if you have a problem with this page“ ..All of us are vulnerable to intense, non-productive angry reactions in our current relationships if we do not deal openly and directly with emotional issues from our first family—in particular, losses and cutoffs. If we do not observe and understand how our triangles operate, our anger can keep us stuck in the past, rather than serving as an incentive and guide to form more productive relationship patterns for the future. ”
Harriet Lerner
From : The Dance Of Anger: A Woman's Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships